Sunday, December 16, 2012

Rest In Paradise!




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1. Charlotte Bacon (DOB 2/22/06)
2. Daniel Barden (9/25/05)
3. Rachel Davino (7/17/83)
4. Olivia Engel (7/18/06)
5. Josephine Gay (12/11/05)
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7. Dylan Hockley (3/8/06)
8. Dawn Hocksprung (6/28/65)
9. Madeleine F. Hsu (7/10/06)
10. Catherine V. Hubbard (6/8/06)
11. Chase Kowalski (10/31/05)
12. Jesse Lewis (6/30/06)
13. James Mattioli (3/22/06)
14. Grace McDonnell (11/04/05)
15. AnneMarie Murphy (07/25/60)
16. Emilie Parker (5/12/06)
17. Jack Pinto (5/6/06)
18. Noah Pozner (11/20/06)
19. Caroline Previdi (9/7/06)
20. Jessica Rekos (5/10/06)
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22. Lauren Russeau (6/1982)
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SANDY HOOK VICTIMS, REMEMBERED

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Source : NY Daily News


* Adam Lanza's Mom Pulled Him out of School

The aunt of Connecticut shooter Adam Lanza said the shooter's mother pulled him out of Newtown's public school system because she was unhappy with the school district's plans for her son.
Adam Lanza's mother Nancy, 52, was the first victim of his Friday shooting spree. Lanza shot Nancy in the face and then drove her car to Sandy Hook Elementary School, where he killed 20 students and six adults before taking his own life.
Marsha Lanza, who is Adam's aunt and Nancy's ex-sister-in-law, called her former sister-in-law an "awesome ... giving person." She also told Evelyn Holmes of ABC-owned-and-operated station WLS in Chicago that Nancy had once been a classroom aide at the Sandy Hook school.
Marsha, who lives in the Chicago suburb of Crystal Lake, said that Nancy had home-schooled Adam after pulling him out of the Newtown public school system. "She mentioned she wound up home-schooling him because she battled with the school district," said Marsha.
She did not know when Adam had left school. According to former classmates, Adam had attended the local high school at least through part of 10th grade.
Nancy Lanza divorced her husband Peter in 2009, when Adam was 17. "She didn't have to work because my brother-in-law left her very well off," said Marsha. "As part of their divorce settlement she got the house."
Marsha also said, however, that Nancy had purchased guns because she was living alone in a big house. Nancy was originally from New Hampshire, said Marsha, and comfortable with weapons.
According to police, a Glock handgun, a Sig Sauer handgun and a Bushmaster rifle were recovered after the shooting at Sandy Hook. Authorities say that Nancy Lanza had five weapons registered to her, including a Sig Sauer, a Glock and a Bushmaster. Police have not confirmed that hers were the weapons used in the slayings.

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Source : ABC News

* Newtown shooting victims named; Police have ‘very good evidence’ regarding Adam Lanza’s motives
 
NEWTOWN, Conn. — The victims of the U.S. school shooting were shot multiple times by semiautomatic rifle, the medical examiner said Saturday, and he called the injuries “devastating” and the worst he and colleagues had ever seen. Police began releasing the identities of the dead. All of the 20 children killed were 6 or 7 years old.The examiner, Dr. H. Wayne Carver, said he examined seven of the children killed, and two had been shot at close range. When asked how many bullets were fired, he said, “I’m lucky if I can tell you how many I found.”Police said they had found “very good evidence” they hoped would answer questions about the motives of the 20-year-old gunman, described as brilliant but remote, who forced his way into the school and killed 26 children and adults in one of the world’s worst mass shootings.Witnesses said the gunman, Adam Lanza, didn’t say a word as he shot children and later killed himself. Police have not officially identified the shooter.Reaction was swift and emotional around the world, any many immediately thought of Dunblane — a 1996 shooting in that small Scottish town which killed 16 small children and prompted a campaign that ultimately led to tighter gun controls.Pressure to take similar action built on President Barack Obama, whose comments on the tragedy were one of the most outwardly emotional moments of his presidency.“The majority of those who died were children — beautiful little kids between the ages of 5 and 10 years old,” Obama told a White House news briefing Friday, struggling to keep his composure. He promised “meaningful action” on the issue of mass shootings, “regardless of the politics.”Stunned residents and exhausted officials continued Saturday to fill in the details of the attack.The school’s well-liked principal, Dawn Hochsprung, was killed while lunging at the gunman as she tried to overtake him, town officials said. Board of Education chairwoman Debbie Liedlien said administrators were coming out of a meeting when the gunman forced his way into the school, and they ran toward them.Asked whether Hochsprung is a hero, the chairman of the town’s Legislative Council, Jeff Capeci, said, “From what we know, it’s hard to classify her as anything else.”Police said the shooter had no connection to the school in Newtown, a small and picturesque New England community about 60 miles (95 kilometres) northeast of New York City.Connecticut state police Lt. Paul Vance told reporters Saturday that investigators had found “very good evidence” and hoped it would answer questions about the gunman’s motives. Vance would not elaborate.Another law enforcement official, speaking on condition of anonymity, said that investigators had found no note or manifesto of the sort they have come to expect after murderous rampages.Just one person, a woman who worked at the school, was shot and survived — an unusually small number in a mass shooting — and Vance said her comments would be “instrumental.”
A law enforcement official said a Glock and a Sig Sauer, both pistols, and a .223-calibre Bushmaster rifle were found in the school and a fourth weapon was found outside the school. The official was not authorized to discuss information with reporters and spoke on condition of anonymity.
Investigators had not found evidence after talking with state gun dealers and gun ranges that the gunman trained for the attack or was an active member of the recreational gun community, U.S. Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms spokeswoman Ginger Colbrun said.
Lanza is believed to have suffered from a personality disorder and lived with his mother, said a law enforcement official who was briefed on the investigation. He attended Newtown High School, and several news clippings from recent years mention his name among the honour roll students.
Lanza shot his mother, Nancy Lanza, drove to the school in her car and shot up two classrooms Friday morning, law enforcement officials said, speaking on condition of anonymity.
A custodian ran through the halls, warning of a gunman, and someone switched on the intercom, perhaps saving many lives by letting them hear the chaos in the school office, a teacher said. Teachers locked their doors and ordered children to huddle in a corner or hide in closets as shots echoed through the building.
Maryann Jacob, a clerk in the school library, was with 18 students when they heard gunfire outside the room. She had the children crawl into a storage room, and they locked the door and barricaded it with a file cabinet. There happened to be materials for coloring, “so we set them up with paper and crayons.”
After what she guessed was about an hour, officers came to the door and knocked.
“One of them slid his badge under the door, and they called and said, ’It’s OK, it’s the police,”’ Jacob said.
Lanza’s older brother, 24-year-old Ryan Lanza, of Hoboken, New Jersey, was questioned, but a law enforcement official said he was not believed to have had a role in the rampage. He told law enforcement he had not been in touch with his brother since about 2010. The official spoke on the condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to discuss the unfolding investigation.
The gunman’s aunt Marsha Lanza said her nephew was raised by kind, nurturing parents who would not have hesitated to seek mental help for him if he needed it.
“Nancy wasn’t one to deny reality,” Marsha Lanza said, adding her husband had seen Adam as recently as June and recalled nothing out of the ordinary.
Catherine Urso, of Newtown, said her college-age son knew the gunman. “He just said he was very thin, very remote,” she said.
Joshua Milas, who graduated from Newtown High in 2009 and belonged to the school technology club with him, said Adam Lanza was generally a happy person but that he hadn’t seen him in a few years.
“We would hang out, and he was a good kid. He was smart,” Joshua Milas said. “He was probably one of the smartest kids I know. He was probably a genius.”
The community also turned its focus Saturday to the young children who had witnessed the attack. Police had students to close their eyes as they were led from the building so they wouldn’t see the blood and broken glass. In a photo by the local Newtown Bee newspaper that quickly became the defining image of the attack, children — some crying, many looking frightened — were escorted through a parking lot in a line, hands on one another’s shoulders.
Robert Licata said his 6-year-old son was in class when the gunman burst in and shot the teacher. “That’s when my son grabbed a bunch of his friends and ran out the door,” he said. “He was very brave. He waited for his friends.”
He said the shooter didn’t utter a word.
Kaitlin Roig, a teacher at the school, said she implored her students to be quiet.
“If they started crying, I would take their face and say it’s going to be OK. Show me your smile,” she said. “They said, ’We want to go home for Christmas. Yes, yeah.’ ’I just want to hug my mom,’ things like that, that were just heartbreaking.”
Hundreds of people packed St. Rose of Lima church Friday night and stood outside in a vigil for the 28 dead — 20 children and six adults at the school, the gunman’s mother at home, and the gunman himself.
Just 10 days before Christmas Eve, people held hands, lit candles and sang “Silent Night.”
“People in my neighbourhood are feeling guilty about it being Christmas. They are taking down decorations,” said Jeannie Pasacreta, a psychologist who was advising parents on how to talk to their children.

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* Newtown, Conn, Shooting : Sandy Hook elementary school gunman Adan Lanza learned to shoot from his gun-collecting mom

Mother Nancy Lanza often took her kids target shooting, landscaper Dan Holmes said. " That was a passion, 'he said. 'The whole family would go together.' Her 20-year-old son Adam killed her with one of her own guns before using them to murder 20 children at the elementary school where she once worked.
He was dark and disturbed, a deeply troubled boy from a wealthy family who unnerved his neighbors and classmates.
Mass murder Adam Lanza, 20, was a ticking time bomb, people who knew him told the Daily News.
" This was a deeply disturbed kid," a family insider told the Daily News. " He certainly had major issue. He was subject to outbursts from what I recall."
Lanza, who friends and officials said suffered from Asperger's syndrome or a personality disorder, had a tortured mind.
He was socially awkward and at times unstable, but also extraordinarily bright.
"He was smart," the insider said. "He was like one of these real brainiac computer kind of kids."
A "longtime" family friend said Lanza had a condition " where he couldn't feel pain."
"A few years ago when he was on the baseball team, everyone had to be careful that he didn't fall because he could get hurt and not feel it," said the friend. " Adam had a lot of mental problems."
 
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 Adam Lanza, pictured in his Reed Intermediate School yearbook photo.

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An aerial view of the scene at near the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn.

Lanza’s strange behavior was well-known among his well-heeled neighbors in leafy Newtown, Conn. His antics irked several residents.“Adam Lanza has been a weird kid since we were 5 years old,” a neighbor and former classmate named Tim Dalton wrote on Twitter. “As horrible as this was, I can't say I am surprised . . . Burn in hell, Adam.”He was also seen as an odd figure at Newtown High School.Even before that, Lanza walked the halls of his middle school carrying a black briefcase while most students lugged their belongings in backpacks. “That stuck out,” said Tim Lalli, 20, who graduated with Lanza in 2010. “It was different.”Lalli said Lanza wasn’t a total outcast, but he didn’t speak much.“Everyone just assumed he was a smart kid and that’s why he didn’t like talking to people all the time,” he said. “He hung out with the smart crowd.”And he lived in luxury.
Lanza was living with his devoted mother, Nancy, in the family’s four-bedroom, 3,100-square-foot estate.
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Nancy Lanza divorced Adam’s father, Peter, in 2008. Peter Lanza, now a vice president of taxes for GE Energy Financial Services, agreed to annual alimony payments that started at $240,000 and would have reached $298,800 in 2015.The couple had married on June 6, 1981, in Kingston, N.H. — where Adam Lanza was born — and the divorce hit Peter Lanza hard, his lawyer said.“He was very upset that he was getting divorced, but he didn’t want to take it out on anybody,” said attorney Gary Oberst.He said the Lanzas were deeply devoted to their children. In fact, Peter Lanza insisted on handing over more money than his lawyer initially suggested.“He did more than he had to with the divorce,” said Oberst. “When he came in to consult with me, I said, ‘This is what your obligation is.’ He said, ‘That’s not enough. I want to do more.’ ”The family insider described the Lanzas as “lovely, very generous people who were very kind to each other during the divorce.”Peter Lanza was blindsided by news of the shooting. When he drove up to his red-brick home in Stamford, Conn., Friday afternoon, a reporter was waiting outside.
“Is there something I can do for you?” Lanza asked,, according to the Connecticut Post.
When told his address had been linked to the Newtown massacre, his face dropped, he rolled up the window of his blue Mini Cooper and drove into his garage without commenting.
He had arrived home just after a group of cops left. The sight of the officers freaked out neighbor Geralyn Petrafesa.
“Around 3 p.m., I drive by and saw the police wearing vests,” said Petrafesa. “They were approaching the house. I ran home and told my kids to stay in the house. I figured it was connected with what was going on in Newtown.”
The 52-year-old Peter Lanza had only recently moved in with his new wife, Shelley Cudiner, who works in the library at the University of Connecticut.
Peter Lanza also has an academic background. He has served as an adjunct professor at Northeastern University in Boston since 1995 and has taught classes on tax partnerships at Fairfield University, according to the Connecticut Post.
Nancy Lanza, 54, whom Adam murdered inside the home the two shared, reportedly had worked at Sandy Hook Elementary School. But more recently, she was taking care of her son.
“She needed to be home with Adam,” the family insider said.
Nancy was known as a pillar of the community, while neighbors viewed her troubled son as a terror.
“My daughter went to school w/adam lanza,” a former neighbor who identified herself as Beth Israel wrote on Twitter. “We lived 6 houses away. He was troubled for sure for a long time. RIP nancy.”
Early news reports suggested Adam Lanza’s 24-year-old brother, Ryan, had launched the rampage — but Beth Israel believed otherwise.
“It has to be Adam, not Ryan,” she tweeted.
Ryan Lanza, who lives in Hoboken and works at Ernst and Young, didn’t talk about his younger brother while attending Quinnipiac University.
“I knew he had a brother, but I never knew anything more than he existed,” said a college friend.
Ryan Lanza told cops he had not been in touch with his brother since about 2010.
One family friend described Adam Lanza as a gamer who “rarely spoke.”
“He was weird,” said the friend, who asked to remain anonymous. “He was quiet.”
Lanza’s maternal grandmother, Dorothy Hanson, told a Tampa Bay Times reporter she was too shaken to speak.
“(I’m) just trying to absorb it,” said Hanson, 78, who spends winters in a modest mobile home park in Brooksville, Fla.
A friend of Hanson’s said Lanza’s elderly grandmother was “beside herself right now.”
Late Friday night, Peter Lanza’s neighbors said they wondered how he was going to cope with the news that his ex-wife was dead and his youngest son would forever be known as a murderous monster.
“This whole thing is just tragic,” said one neighbor. “I can’t image what he’s dealing with right now.”

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ဒီေန႕ .. မုိးလင္းကတည္းက သတင္းေတြ လုိက္ဖတ္ေနမိတယ္။ အဲဒ္ဒမ္ကုိလည္း နားမလည္ႏုိင္ေအာင္ ျဖစ္ရပါတယ္။ ဘာေၾကာင့္ ဒီလုိအျပဳအမူမ်ဳိး လုပ္ရတာလည္း ဆုိပီး သတင္းေတြမွာ လုိက္ဖတ္ၾကည့္ေနမိပါတယ္။

အဲဒ္ဒမ္က အခုမွ အသက္ ၂၀ ပဲ ရွိေသးတယ္။ အင္တာနက္က သူ႕ဓာတ္ပံုက လြန္ခဲ႕တဲ႕ 2005 က ရုိက္ထားေသာ ဓာတ္ပံု အျပစ္ကင္းစင္တဲ႕ ဆယ္ေက်ာ္သက္ေကာင္ေလး တေယာက္ရဲ႕ ပံုစံမ်ဳိးပါပဲ။

လြန္ခဲ႕တဲ႕ ၇ႏွစ္က ရုိက္ထားတာ ဆုိေတာ့ သူ႕အသက္ ၁၂ႏွစ္၊ ၁၃ႏွစ္သားေလာက္ပဲ ရွိအံုးမယ္။ သူ႕ဆီမွာ Facebook account၊ twitter account မရွိပါဘူး။ သူ႕အေမက ျပင္ပက လူေတြနဲ႕ ေပါင္းသင္းဆက္ဆံတာမ်ဳိးကုိ မၾကိဳက္ဘူး။ တင္းက်ပ္တယ္လုိ႕လည္း ဖတ္ရတယ္။

သူ႕အကုိ အရင္းႏွင့္လည္း ၂၀၁၀ ကတည္းက အဆက္အဆံ မရွိေတာ့ပါဘူး။ သူ႕အကုိက အသက္ - ၂၄ ႏွစ္၊ နယူးဂ်ာဆီမွာ ေနတယ္။

သူ႕အေဖ ႏွင့္ သူ႕အေမ ၂၀၀၉ မွာ ကြာရွင္းပီး သူ႕က သူအေမႏွင့္အတူ ကြန္နက္တီကတ္ နယူးေတာင္း ရပ္ကြက္မွာ တူတူေနပါတယ္။ သူ႕အေဖက ကြန္နက္တီကတ္ စတန္းဖုိ႕ရပ္ကြက္မွာ ေနာက္ အမ်ဳိးသမီးနဲ႕ တူတူေနပါတယ္။

သူ႕အေမက နယူးေတာင္းက အထက္တန္းက်ာင္း ပညာေရး စနစ္ကုိ မၾကိဳက္လုိ႕ သူ႕ကုိ ေက်ာင္းက ထြက္ေစပီး home-schooling အိမ္မွာ စာသင္ေစတယ္။

အဲဒ္ဒမ္က ၁၀တန္းအထိ အစုိးရ အထက္တန္းေက်ာင္းတက္ခဲ႕တယ္။ အသက္ ၁၇ႏွစ္အရြယ္အထိ .. နယူးေတာင္း အထက္တန္းေက်ာင္းမွာ ေက်ာင္းတက္ခဲ႕ဖူးတယ္။ သူ႕ အသက္ ၁၇ႏွစ္ ( 2009 ) မွာ သူ႕အေဖနဲ႕ သူ႕အေမ ကြာရွင္းပီး သူ႕အေမက ဥပေဒအရ အိမ္ကုိပုိင္ဆုိင္ခြင့္ရွိေပမယ့္ သူ႕အေမက အလုပ္ မလုပ္ဘူး။ ဆန္ဒီဟုဒ္ မူလတန္းေက်ာင္းမွာ လက္ေထာက္ ဆရာမ အျဖစ္နဲ႕ တၾကိမ္ အလုပ္ လုပ္ခဲ႕ဖူးတယ္။

သူအေမက ကုိလုိနီပံုစံ အေဆာက္အဦး ... Colonial-style house ( she was living alone in a big house. ) အထီးက်န္စြာ ေနထုိင္ရတာမုိ႕ ... တရား၀င္ ေသနတ္ ၅လက္ေတာင္ ကိုင္ေဆာင္ခြင့္ရွိတယ္။
အဲဒ္ဒမ္ က သူ႕အေမ နန္စီ ( အသက္ ၅၂ ႏွစ္ )ကုိ  ေသာၾကာေန႕ မနက္မွာ မ်က္ႏွာကုိ ေသနတ္နဲ႕ ပစ္သတ္ပီး .. သူ႕အေမ ကားနဲ႕ မူလတန္းေက်ာင္းကုိသြား .. ေက်ာင္းက ျပဴတင္းေပါက္မွန္ကုိ အရင္ခြဲ .. ေက်ာင္းထဲကုိ ၀င္ပီး .. စာသင္ခန္း ၂ခန္းက ကေလးမ်ားႏွင့္ ေကာ္ရစ္ဒါမွာ ျမင္ျမင္သမွ်ကုိ ေသနတ္ပစ္သြားတယ္။ ၂၆ ေယာက္ ေသနတ္ပစ္သတ္ပီးမွ သူ႕ေခါင္းကုိ သူ ေသနတ္ပစ္ပီး သတ္ေသသြားတာ။

ကုိယ့္ဆီမွာ အက်င့္တခုရွိပါတယ္။

ဒီလုိ အျဖစ္အပ်က္မ်ဳိး ၾကံဳေတြ႕ရတဲ႕အခါတုိင္းမွာ ဘာေၾကာင့္ ဒီလုိ အျပဳအမူမ်ဳိးကုိ ကေလးေတြ ျပဳမူတာလဲးဆုိပီး အေသးစိတ္ စိတ္၀င္စားစြာ လုိက္ဖတ္တတ္ပါတယ္။

ကေလး ၂ေယာက္၏ မိခင္မုိ႕ သားသမီးခ်င္း ကိုယ္ခ်င္းစာတယ္။ အေၾကာင္းရွိလုိ႕ အက်ဳိးျဖစ္လာတာမုိ႕ ဘာအေၾကာင္းလဲးဆုိတာ သိခ်င္ေနတယ္။

လူက်င့္၀တ္မရွိ၊ လူတေယာက္မွာ ရွိသင့္တဲ႕ အသိစိတ္၊ အသိတရားကင္းမဲ႕ေနတဲ႕ အဲဒ္ဒမ္ရဲ႕ မုိက္မဲမႈ႕ကုိ ရႈံခ်ေပမယ့္ ... သူ႕ကုိ သနားတယ္။

ဘယ္ေလာက္ေတာင္ လူ႔ပတ္၀န္းက်င္ အသုိင္းအ၀ုိင္းႏွင့္ သူ႕အေမ စာသင္ခဲ႕ဖူးတဲ႕ ... မူလတန္းေက်ာင္း ကုိ စိတ္နာၾကည္းေနတာလဲး။

သူ႕အေမ ႏွင့္ အဲဒီ မူလတန္းေက်ာင္း ၾကားမွာ ဘာအေၾကာင္းေတြမ်ားရွိေနလုိ႕လဲး။

သူ႕အေမက သူ႕ကုိ အိမ္မွာ ဘယ္လုိပံုစံမ်ဳိးနဲ႕ စာ ဆက္သင္တာလဲး။

၁၈ ႏွစ္လည္း မဟုတ္   အသက္ ( ၂၀ )

ဘယ္လုိျဖစ္ပီး မူလတန္း ကေလးေတြကုိမွ လာမဲရတာလည္း။

2009 ကတည္းက မိသားစု တကြဲတျပားႏွင့္ သူတုိ႕ သားအမိ ... အိမ္ၾကီး တလံုးတည္းမွာ ဘယ္လုိ စိတ္ပုိင္းဆုိင္ရာႏွင့္ ေနထုိင္ေနတာလဲး။

( တခ်ဳိ႕ အမ်ဳိးသမီးေတြက ခင္ပြန္းေဟာင္းကုိ နာၾကည္းတဲ႕အခါမ်ဳိးမွာ ကုိယ့္သားသမီးကုိ မဲပီး အျပစ္ဖုိ႕တတ္၊ စိတ္ပုိင္းဆုိင္ရာ နာက်င္ေအာင္ လုပ္တတ္ၾကတယ္။ )

အဲဒ္ဒမ္ႏွင့္ ရြယ္တူ တခ်ဳိ႕ကေလးေတြဆုိ ပံုမွန္  အထက္တန္းေက်ာင္းပီးလုိ႕ university တက္ေနေလာက္ပီ။

အဲဒ္ဒမ္ ပညာေရးကုိ ေလာဘမၾကီးပဲ ပံုမွန္ တျခားကေလးမ်ားႏွင့္ တန္းတူ ေက်ာင္းတတ္ေစပီး ပံုမွန္ လူငယ္ဘ၀မ်ဳိးနဲ႕ ဘ၀ကုိ ျဖတ္သန္းရင္ ဒီလုိ အျဖစ္ဆုိးမ်ဳိး ၾကံဳႏုိင္ပါ႕မလား။

Home-schooling မတုိင္ခင္အထိ ကေလးက အေကာင္းၾကီးပါ။ ၃ႏွစ္အတြင္းမွာ ဘ၀ကုိ ဘယ္လုိျဖတ္သန္းလာလုိ႕ ဒီေလာက္ေတာင္ ဆုိးရြားစြာ စိတ္ေဖာက္ျပန္သြားရတာလဲး။

ဘယ္လုိ ခံစားခ်က္ေတြ ေၾကာင့္လည္းဆုိတာ သူ႕အေၾကာင္းေတြ လုိက္ဖတ္မိေနရင္း ...

သူ႕ေၾကာင့္ ေၾကြသြားတဲ႕ ဘာမွ မသိ နားမလည္ေသးတဲ႕ ကေလးေတြ .. ေသျခင္းတရား မေျပာနဲ႕ စာသင္ခန္းထဲကုိ Gangnam style လုိမ်ဳိး ေသနတ္ ၂ လက္နဲ႕ ၀င္လာတဲ႕ သူ႕ကုိ ေၾကာင္ပီး ၾကည့္ေနမလား .. ေၾကာက္ေနမလား ... ႏုနယ္တဲ႕ ကေလး ေလးေတြကုိ ေသနတ္ နဲ႕ အနီးကပ္ ပစ္သြားရက္တယ္။ ဘာမွ နားမလည္ေသးတဲ႕ ... အျပစ္မဲ႕ ကေလးေတြကုိ ဘယ္လုိ အသိတရားမ်ဳိးနဲ႕မ်ား ေသနတ္ပစ္သြားရက္တာလဲး။

ဘယ္ေလာက္ေတာင္ စိတ္ပုိင္းဆုိင္ရာ ထိခုိက္ေနလုိ႕ အသိတရားမဲ႕ပီး .. ရမ္းကားတဲ႕ အျပဳအမူစရုိက္မ်ဳိးကုိ ေရႊးခ်ယ္ရတာလဲး ...

ကုိယ့္ကုိကုိယ္ ေသခ်င္လုိ႕ ေသနတ္ျဖင့္ ရမ္းကားခ်င္ရင္လည္း လူဆုိးဂုိဏ္းရွိတဲ႕ ေနရာကုိ သြားျပီး ရမ္းကားပါလား။

အားနည္းတဲ႕သူအေပၚ ဘာေၾကာင့္ လူတုိင္း ( စိတ္ေဖာက္ျပန္ေနေသာ အရူးပါး - အပါအ၀င္ ) အႏုိင္က်င့္ခ်င္ရတာလဲး။

ဂိမ္းေတြေၾကာင့္ လက္ရဲ၊ ဇက္ရဲ ေသနတ္ပစ္သတ္ရဲတာလား။

သူ႕အေမ သင္ေပးထားတဲ႕ ေသနတ္ပစ္နည္းနဲ႕ သူ႕အေမကုိ သတ္သြားရက္တယ္။

ေသနတ္သံက အရမ္းက်ယ္ေလာင္ပါတယ္။ ေသနတ္ပစ္တဲ႕သူ ကုိယ္တုိင္ေတာင္ အဲဒီ အသံေတြေၾကာင့္ နား အရမ္းအူတယ္။

တကယ့္ စိတ္မေကာင္းပါဘူး။

TJ တုန္းကလည္း ကုိယ္ေျပာခဲ႕ဖူးပါတယ္။ ျပီးျပည့္စံုတဲ႕ ဘ၀နဲ႕ ၾကီးျပင္းလာတဲ႕ကေလးေတြက ေတာ္ရုံတန္ရုံ ေလာကဓံကုိ မခံႏုိင္ဘူး။ စိတ္ထိခုိက္ က်ဳိးပဲ႕လြယ္ပါတယ္။

မိဘေတြ တကြဲတျပားျဖစ္တာလည္း ကေလးေတြအတြက္ ၈၀ ရာခုိင္ႏႈန္း ဆုိးက်ဳိးကုိ ျဖစ္ေစပါတယ္။

တႏွစ္ကုိ ဖခင္ထံမွ ေဒၚလာ ၂သိန္းေလးေသာင္း ၀င္ေငြရွိေသာ သားအမိ၊
 ေနအိမ္ အေကာင္းစားၾကီးမွာ ေနထုိင္ေသာ သားအမိ ၂ေယာက္ ..
စား၊၀တ္၊ေနေရး မပူပင္ရတဲ႕ သားအမိ ၂ေယာက္ .. စိတ္ပုိင္းဆုိင္ရာ ေတာ္ေတာ္ ထိခုိက္သြားတာပဲ။

စား၊၀တ္၊ေနေရး ပူပင္ေနရတဲ႕လူေတြက အဲဒီေလာက္ မခံစားႏုိင္ၾကဘူး။ မအားၾကဘူး။ ေၾကကြဲ စိတ္ထိခုိက္ဖုိ႕ အေျခအေနႏွင့္ အခ်ိန္ မေပးႏုိင္ၾကဘူး။

လြမ္းေရးထက္ ၀မ္းေရးက အေရးၾကီးေနလုိ႕ ...

ဘ၀ထက္ ... ခံစားခ်က္ကုိ ဦးစားမေပးႏုိင္ၾကဘူး။

Single mother ရဲ႕ ဘ၀ ႏွင့္ 2009 မွာ  ေက်ာင္းထြက္ပီး အိမ္မွာ ပညာသင္ေစတဲ႕ အသက္ ၂၀အရြယ္ လူငယ္တေယာက္ဟာ ဘယ္ေလာက္ေတာင္ စိတ္ပုိင္းဆုိင္ရာ အထိနာေနတာလဲး။

စိတ္ေဖာက္ျပန္ေနတာကုိ ေဆးမကုသဘူးလား။

သူတုိ႕ခံစားရတာေတြကုိ မွ်ေ၀ခံစားေပးမယ့္ .. နားလည္ စာနာေပးမယ္႕ .. ပတ္၀န္းက်င္၊ ေဆြမ်ဳိး အသုိင္းအ၀ုိင္း၊ သူငယ္ခ်င္းေကာင္း၊ မိတ္ေဆြေတြ မရွိဘူးလား။

စိတ္ထြက္ေပါက္ မရွိဘူးလား။

သူ႕ရဲ႕ စိတ္ထြက္ေပါက္ အေနနဲ႕ မူလတန္းကေလးေတြကုိ ေသနတ္ပစ္သတ္သြားတာ ေတာ္ေတာ္ဆုိး၀ါးလြန္းပါတယ္။

သူ႕ရဲ႕ ၀ိညာဥ္လည္း ျငိမ္သက္ပါေစ ...

မေသခင္ ပူေလာင္ေနတဲ႕ သူ႕ရဲ႕ စိတ္၊ ၀ိညာဥ္လည္း ပူေလာင္ေနမွာ ..  သိေပမယ့္ ကုိယ္ရဲ႕ စိတ္ရင္းအမွန္ ဆုေတာင္းေလး တခ်က္ေၾကာင့္ ေရၾကည္ တေပါက္ေလာက္ ျဖစ္မယ္ဆုိရင္လည္း သူ႕ရဲ႕ ၀ိညာဥ္ ျငိမ္သက္ျခင္းရွိပါေစ ...

ေသျခင္းတရားကုိ ... မသိနားမလည္ေသးတဲ႕ ကေလးမ်ား .. တကယ္ ေသျခင္းတရားႏွင့္ မေမွ်ာ္လင့္ပဲ ၾကံဳသြားရတဲ႕ ကေလးေတြရဲ႕ ၀ိညာဥ္ေတြ .. ေကာင္းရာသုဂတိလားပါေစ ... ေကာင္းရာ ဘံုဘ၀သုိ႕ေရာက္ရွိပါေစ ...

ေက်ာင္းကားေပၚကေန ကုိယ့္သားသမီးရဲ႕ ေက်ာင္းျပန္ခ်ိန္ကုိ မၾကိဳဆုိႏုိင္ေတာ့တဲ႕ မိဘေတြရဲ႕ စိတ္ႏွလံုးသားေတြ ေအးခ်မ္းပါေစ ...

ေက်ာင္းသူ၊ ေက်ာင္းသားေတြကုိ အသက္စြန္႕ပီး ကာကြယ္ေပးသြားတဲ႕ ဆရာမမ်ားႏွင့္ ေက်ာင္းအုပ္ၾကီး ... ... ေကာင္းရာ သုဂတိလားပါေစ ...

ေသြးပ်က္၊ ေၾကကြဲစရာ အျဖစ္ဆုိးမ်ဳိးေတြ ေနာက္ထပ္ မၾကံဳေတြ႕ရပါေစသား ...

ေၾကကြဲ၊ ၀မ္းနည္းေနသူမ်ား အားလံုး ကုိယ္၊ စိတ္၊ ႏွလံုး သံုးပါးစလံုး စိတ္၏
ခ်မ္းသာျခင္း၊ ကုိယ္၏ က်န္းမာျခင္းမ်ားႏွင့္ ျပည့္စံုႏုိင္ၾကပါေစ ... ေဘးရန္ကင္းရွင္းၾကပါေစ ...

3 comments :

Anonymous said...

Pray for this innocent children. Some people are complete sick.

:P said...

လူသတ္သမားကို အျပစ္တင္ေနတာ ..အစ္မေရးတာ ဖတ္ရမွ သူ႕မွာလည္း ဘယ္လို စိတ္ထိခိုက္မႈမ်ိဳးႀကံဳခဲ့ရသလဲလုိ႕ ေတြးၾကည့္မိတယ္...။
ကိုယ့္မွာ သမီးေလးရွိေတာ့ ဆံုးသြားတဲ့ ကေလးေလးေတြ ပံုကို မၾကည့္ရက္ဘူး.. ေက်ာ္သြားတယ္...။

ေသဆံုးသြားၾကသူအားလံုး ေကာင္းရာမြန္ရာ ဘဝ ေရာက္ၾကပါေစ.....၊

သီရိရတနာ said...

@ Anonymous & :P ...

အသိတရားမဲ႕ေနတဲ႕ ... လူစိတ္ကင္းမဲ႕ေနတဲ႕ လူသတ္သမားကုိ အျပစ္တင္တာ အမွန္ပါပဲ ...

ဥပမာ ... အေမရိကန္စစ္သား ( သုိ႕ ) စစ္ျဖစ္ရင္ေတာင္ အျပစ္မဲ႕ ကေလး၊ သက္ၾကီးရြယ္အုိ၊ ကုိယ္၀န္ေဆာင္မိခင္ေတြကုိ ေရွာင္ရွားသြားရမွာပါ။

အဲဒမ္ရဲ႕ ငယ္ဘ၀ကုိ ၾကည့္ေတာ့လည္း ျပစ္မႈ႕မွတ္တမ္း အေထာက္အထား လံုး၀ မရွိဘူး။

Home schooling မတုိင္ခင္အထိ အေကာင္းၾကီးကေန ... ဘယ္လုိျဖစ္ပီး အဲဒီေလာက္အထိ လူစိတ္ကင္းမဲ႕ပီး ... စိတ္ေဖာက္ျပန္သြားတာလဲး မသိဘူး။

ပတ္၀န္းက်င္ႏွင့္ ကင္းကြာ .. ၂ေယာက္တည္းေနေသာ သားအမိ၊
ဂိမ္းကြန္ယက္၊
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